Today I read this article by Louise Tickle "Does Sex Education exclud e young gay people?" Personally in my work I have always tried to be gender and sexuality neutral in all my lessons. I always use the term "partners" or using the full phrase "a boyfriend or girlfriend" in every sentence to any gender student. But sometimes I still find myself falling into hetronormative language. It is not a choice but an unconscious accident. For example I had a interesting situation doing a condom demonstration in a school with a girl constantly talking over me (which I find so annoying). I asked " Please listen for a few minutes then you could speak with your friends." She replied. "But I don't need to know this" I replied "you never know what might happen in the future and it both a male and a females shared responsibility to know how to minimize risks" "But I don't need to know this" I