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30 Sex and Relationships Questions

At the end of lesson we often give the students a chance to ask us any question anonymously by writing them down on a piece of paper, handing them in and then we shuffle them up and answer them all. Here is a collection of some of the most interesting, thought provoking and humorous i have collected over the last few 3 years. I am sharing them today to give a window into the curiosity of young people. Their genuine search for knowledge and sometimes the scary stuff they believe. Some are intentionally funny, others bizarre and some I find sad.


  1. Is it easy to see if someone has genital warts, herpes and lice?
  2. Why do girlfriends and boyfriends argue?
  3. Is it better for a girl to put a condom on a lad?
  4. When you are in labor does your vagina split so it can come out?
  5. How to give a girl more pleasure?
  6. Can you catch an STI from tasting cum?
  7. Do you have to be on your period to get pregnant?
  8. Isn't it awkward when you first have sex because you have never done it before?
  9. What is a MILF? and What is a doosh bag?
  10. Can you burn your mouth if you have oral sex with someone who has ginger pubes?
  11. What is a clitoris and what does it do?
  12. Can you run out of sperm if you wank too much?
  13. What is a dildo for and how do you use it?
  14. Can you never hit puberty?
  15. What is an orgasm?
  16. What happens when you get an abortion? What do they do?
  17. What's a rim job?
  18. If you go to a clinic underage do you get told off?
  19. Can you get glow in the dark condoms?
  20. What can you do legally?
  21. Can you get a girl pregnant from pre-cum?
  22. Wouldn't it be awkward to ask if the girl if they have an STI? You cant exactly force them to take a test!
  23. Why do boys masturbate?
  24. Does everyone get rounded and curvy?
  25. Why do people say on your first time of having sex you bleed? Is that true?
  26. What is the most important thing about having a good relationship?
  27. On average how much does a male/female masturbate a week?
  28. Do you think HIV could be cured in the future?
  29. Can you  set an STI through oral ear sex?
  30. What is the strangest question you've ever been asked?
Has any one else had some interesting questions? Which of the above questions do you think is most interesting? Shall I post more?

Comments

  1. Those are really interesting! Have to say "oral ear sex" is a new term for me. Thanks for sharing. Great blog!

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